English class~ Interview preparation and psychology~

last week I have my english class and all the week we talk about interviews and all its crazyness. haha!

Mr Lim is my Technical English lecturer and he is really2 awesome!
so, there is one class, if I not mistaken, the Wednesday class. we talk about how to enter the interview room.Interview is really complicated ain't it? haha!
I have some of my previous knowledge through readings and some series of mock interview in the college. (thank God I have knowledges in it~ AMIN~), so, it is not a shock for most of the thing he told us~
hehe!

Our body posture must straight, how to sit, how to laid ur hand when u r sitting, ur legs...bla..bla..bla....
haha! really2 formal and messy.

AND! the best part!
Mr. Lim also thought us about the psychological behaviours.
I am really attracted to this simple thing that really make sense and I think it is a great indicator.

He said that,
HOW PEOPLE SHAKE HANDS CAN TELL HIS/HER PERSONALITY..
I also knew something about this one, but his is something new.

1st, how he/she stretch the hand to shake.
In interview, you don't stretch ur hand when u r about 5km from that people! haha!
=P
they way it is tells smthing about urself.

2nd, the position of ur palm when u offer a handshake.
If the guy:
offer with his/her hands with his palm down, means.. "I'm in charge!"
(u know what I mean rite~) or it can indicates someone's ego in something.
(no wonder almost every soldiers offers hand like that..)
If,
offers his/her hands with his palm up, it means... "I'm at ur service"
(no wonder girls always melt when n guys offer his hand like that or kneel with his hand like that. hahahaha!)
=P
If,
offers hand vertically, it means.. "Let's work together" or it can be seen, how low profile is the guy.
(this is a good one~)

Thanx 4 da knowledge Mr.Lim! =)

I like it!
Psychology is really powerful!
hee~
My psychological knowledge is not so wide I think.. hmm..
I like this subject.. really!
knowing people just by looking at their behaviour or their eyes or physically.
just nice!
=)

I like it this way, i mean, u see people psychologically. not a rough and blind eyes prediction.
then, when u tend to see what he/she do or u make friends with them.
u can see the real human in it.
and, just make conclusion with ur psychology knowledge.

(for the sake of using ur knowledge, not as a stepping stone for u to judge how people's are!)

It is not like I tend to see people at my first sight predictions. NO! NO! NO!
that is a really bad habit!
u see them psychologically to be cautious.. and also, to reflect it to urself. Is it "in you"?
when u tend to know someone psychologically, for me, PLEASE KEEP IT.
u don't know anythng yet, or u maybe know... but.. It is not really good to do that.

hmm..
u know the words..
"DO NOT JUDGE A BOOK BY IT'S COVER"

May the force and Allah be with U... ALWAYS~
=)